Put a Ring on It: How to Figure Out What Your Dream Wedding Ring Looks Like

So, the question has been popped, the champagne’s been sipped, and now it’s time to get serious about the most important piece of jewelry you’ll ever wear: your wedding ring. But, choosing the right wedding ring can be much harder than you ever imagined because. After all, you will be wearing it for the resort of your life, and you want it to look and feel right right?

But, try not to worry because you can make the right decision, and here are a few things that will help you put a ring on it that is truly the one:

1. Know Your Style (Hint: Look at Your Other Jewelry)

Don’t know what kind of wedding ring you want? A good place to start is by looking at the jewelry you own, so you can see what kinds of metals and syles you already prefer. After all, the style of your wedding ring should align with your personal taste because, let’s be honest, this ring is going to be on your finger forever. You want something that feels like YOU.

Pro tip: Your wedding ring is meant to complement your engagement ring, so if you’re wearing both, consider how they’ll look together. You want a match made in heaven, not a clashing combo.

2. Consider Your Metal Options

Choosing the metal for your ring isn’t just about picking what looks good in the store lighting—it’s about finding something durable and long-lasting, much like your relationship (aww). Here’s the lowdown on the most popular options:

• Gold: Classic and timeless, gold comes in a variety of shades—yellow, white, and rose. White gold looks sleek and modern, while rose gold has that romantic, vintage vibe.
• Platinum: The Beyoncé of metals. It’s rare, durable, and a bit more expensive, but hey, it’s for life.
• Silver: Affordable and lovely, but keep in mind that silver tarnishes more easily than other metals.
• Mix it up: Can’t decide on one? You don’t have to! Two-tone rings (think white gold with a splash of rose) are a great way to get the best of both worlds.

3. Think About Your Lifestyle

Because you will be wearing it a lot, it is important that you ensure youer wedding ring fits in with your lifestyle. For example, if you are someone who works with your hand (a nurse or chef, for example) then you will probably do better with a plain, low-maintenance band, whereas if you don’t need to worry about that, a band with stones or an embossed design would work well if you want one.

4. Do You Want a Custom Design?

Sometimes, you just can’t find the one in a jewelry store, and that’s where custom designs come to the resuce. Going custom lets you have full creative control over your wedding ring, from the exact shape and size to the tiniest details. This option is perfect for couples who want something totally unique, but keep in mind—it might come with a higher price tag and take longer to create, so you need to be really organized if the bespoke route is the one you want to take for your wedding rings.

If you’re dreaming of something specific, bring sketches, inspiration photos, or even a detailed Pinterest board to the jeweler and see what magic they can work.

5. Try It On (Seriously)

You may think you know what your dream ring looks like, but trying it on can either confirm your fantasies or give you a reality check. What looks gorgeous in a display case might feel bulky or uncomfortable on your hand, or not go well with your skin, or simply not feel like the right choice for a reason you cannot put your finger on (pun very much intended) so make sure you actually wear it before making any decisions. Walk around the store, wave your hand like you’re in a dramatic movie, and check it out from every angle.

6. Keep the Budget in Mind

Ah yes, the “B” word—budget. While your wedding ring is one of the most sentimental purchases you’ll ever make, that doesn’t mean you have to blow your life savings on it. Set a budget that feels comfortable, and stick to it ( buy now pay later wedding rings can be helpful if you’re really stretched). 

Remember: the value of your ring isn’t measured by its price tag, but by the love and meaning it holds, and also remember not to rush your decision!

Time to put a ring on it!