3 Wedding Planning Tips for Brides With Pelvic Organ Prolapse 

It’s true that no matter how much one plans, it never seems enough for certain occasions. One such event is perhaps the most significant of anybody’s life, namely, their wedding. 

Bridal blues are real and any advice is welcome once the clock ticks closer to the big day. In the world of wedding planning, some things are nice to know and some that you need to know. This subtle difference can enable you to say by the end of the event, “I’m so glad someone told me that!” 

Every bride has unique preferences and needs for their wedding. The same is the case with those who have pelvic organ prolapse, a condition in which the pelvic floor collapses due to cancer treatment or childbirth. 

According to Mayo Clinic, it is a benign condition in which pelvic floor muscles and connective tissues weaken. There may be some possible discomfort and unique challenges that must be addressed to have the wedding of your dreams. This article will discuss three important wedding planning tips for brides with pelvic organ prolapse.  

Get a Medical Consultation 

Before you dive into visiting different venues or going bridal shopping, schedule an appointment with your gynecologist. Even if you’ve received a diagnosis previously, it’s important to examine the current state of your pelvic floor. 

There are many symptoms of this condition and not every woman experiences all of them. Depending on the symptoms, you may face unique challenges on your big day. For instance, some women may face incontinence issues due to extreme pressure on their bladder. 

Others may face physical discomfort after standing or dancing for extended periods. Your healthcare practitioner will examine you and recommend relevant treatments or medication. If the condition is mild or moderate, your doctor may recommend pelvic floor exercises. 

If the situation is severe, you may have to go for surgical treatment. Earlier, a transvaginal mesh or net-like tool was surgically inserted to support the pelvic floor muscles. However, this medical device has had a dark history. 

Why the Vaginal Mesh was Discontinued 

Since April 2019, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has stopped the use of vaginal mesh for treating pelvic organ prolapse. This ban had to do with safety issues and complications associated with the mesh. 

According to TruLaw, the complications were associated with the mesh’s design flaws. This, combined with a lack of adequate testing before product release, led to serious unforeseen side effects. 

Some of the common injuries associated with the vaginal mesh include organ perforation, chronic pelvic pain, nerve damage, and bleeding. Injured women have filed litigation against mesh manufacturers like American Medical Systems, Coloplast, and Boston Scientific. 

As per the latest transvaginal mesh lawsuit update, over 100,000 cases have been filed and 95% are settled. Attorneys are still accepting new filings. 

Sharing this bit of info was important because though vaginal mesh is no longer used to treat pelvic organ prolapse, it is still recommended for patients with incontinence. If you face the same alongside prolapse, opt for alternative treatments that might be safer. 

Those who do not want to go for surgery or cannot do so will benefit from a vaginal pessary. The Cleveland Clinic shares that it is a removable device that can be inserted into the vagina to support the pelvic organs.

In any case, have your doctor examine you and let them know your wedding plans. They will be the best guide as to how you can manage the condition without compromising on the fun and enjoyment of the event. 

Communicate Openly With Your Partner 

Even in general, open communication with one’s partner is crucial to staying on the same page regarding wedding planning. It helps eliminate stress or misunderstandings and ensures the event reflects the shared vision of the couple. 

Open and honest communication becomes all the more vital when you have a condition like pelvic organ prolapse. Your partner needs to know about your major concerns and ways they can help ease them. 

For instance, suppose the chosen wedding dance could strain your pelvic floor muscles too much. Talking this out will help you both select a more comfortable dance. Similarly, let your partner know how frequently you might need breaks from dancing or photo sessions. 

Then, there is the venue selection of course. Discuss with your to-be-spouse that you would prefer a location for the ceremony that has easy access to seating. These are little ways to ensure your grand day passes by smoothly without stirring up too much curiosity among the guests. 

Choose a Wedding Dress That Meets Your Health Needs 

This is one area where men do not usually interfere with a woman’s preferences. Are you one of those brides who is planning to take their fiance along for bridal shopping? 

That’s a great idea, but just be clear on the kind of dress you wish to purchase. Let your fiance also know about your choices based on health needs. 

As for the specifications, we would recommend opting for a flowy gown instead of a mermaid-fitted one. Despite the silhouette, the gown should be supportive and well-fitted without putting too much pressure on the abdomen. 

That will offer you the waist support you need. Fishtail gowns can put undue strain on the pelvic floor, thereby aggravating your discomfort. Additionally, wear supportive undergarments or a girdle. 

Even the type of footwear you put on will matter. Consider investing in sandals that provide good arch support. They will help minimize strain on your pelvic floor. 

Even while getting ready, select a comfortable seating area because it may take hours. Now, keep in mind that sitting for long periods can also cause discomfort. You can add a cushion for extra support. 

After all is said and done, every bride deserves a wedding ceremony that reflects her vision and aspirations. Stay well hydrated (try the Japanese water therapy), take bathroom breaks whenever necessary, and don’t overthink. 

One in five women across the US lives with this condition. It can be challenging to deal with at times but is no excuse to scale down your wedding expectations. 

The three tips we discussed are absolutely vital. As for the rest, you can plan your big day just like any other excited bride out there!